Category: Uncategorized

Sometimes, I can be a ball of nerves. The Bible says, “Do not be anxious,” but here I am, anxious, trying to control every outcome as if I hold all the cards. The irony is that I *know* I don’t have any real control, yet I still find myself wrestling for it, holding on tightly to my own plans and hopes, imagining I can somehow steer it all.

It’s in these moments that the scriptures speak louder than ever, reminding me of something critical: do I actually trust God? Or am I just pretending to be in control, as if I’m somehow in God’s place?

Then, I picture Jesus seated in Heavenly places, on the right hand of God, his Father. He has the vantage point—the perfect perspective to see and know all things. He already knows every single detail: the mistakes I’m going to make, who I’ll marry, whether I’ll have kids, what my next job will be, the current events I will live through and etc… Knowing this, I’m reminded, “Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.” 1 Peter 5:7 (NIV)

The weight of trying to control it all is exhausting. It’s a weight we were never meant to carry. We can’t control people, and we certainly can’t control outcomes, no matter how much we’d like to think otherwise. So I invite you, friend, to do what I’m reminding myself to do: invite Jesus into the situation. Lean on the one who has the clearest view and the wisest plan.

It’s okay to share that you’re nervous, worried, confused, or anxious. I think it’s human. But we don’t have to stay there.

“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.” – Philippians 4:6 (NIV)

Trust that He hears you and has the best vantage point.

Last Blog: It’s Good

To check out more of my blogs and or content check out my Linktree!

Did you miss a blog post? Don’t worry, subscribe to my newsletter! ❤️

I think in our culture we underestimate the word good. Even when we are ranking something we use the categories of good, better, and best. This order signifies that good appears to be a lower ranking and we must be the best. I think maybe our English vernacular can’t compute the goodness of the word good. 

Storytime: I was reading during my devotional time. Sidenote: (I’ll do a blog on how I structure my mornings with God and share with y’all.) Okay back to the story, I was reading about a Jewish celebration called Rosh Hashanah and it made a reference to the story of creation in Genesis Chapter 1. In this chapter every time God spoke and created (because he’s the greatest Creator) he said it was good.

Scripture reference: “Then God looked over all he had made, and he saw that it was very good! And evening passed and morning came, marking the sixth day.” Genesis 1:31 NLT

Here’s a slight biblical history lesson: The Book of Genesis was written in Hebrew and was later translated to English. As always research this for yourself and don’t even take my word for stuff! That’s how you build good study and relational habits with God by having a curious mindset. Okay I digressed! Back to the story, in the scripture above when God said it was very good. 

From the Bible concordance, good in Hebrew, in the verse referenced above means pleasant, agreeable and good.

For me, the Hebrew definition sounds so much better than the English definition.

Webster defines good as to be desired or approved of.  

All of this to say, the next time you use the word “good” remember we were created in the image of God and everything He created, He said it was good!

Ciao! ✌🏽

Last Blog: Drawing Closer to the Mirror

To check out more of my blogs and or content check out my Linktree!

Did you miss a blog post? Don’t worry, subscribe to my newsletter! ❤️

You know how when you step closer to the mirror, your reflection becomes so much clearer? Suddenly, every detail is up close and personal, things you may not have even noticed from a distance are now front and center. This simple act of drawing closer to our reflection holds a powerful message about our relationship with God.

Imagine that mirror reflection as a symbol of how we should be with God. He’s created us in His image, right? So, when we “move closer to the mirror”—when we draw closer to God—we start to see ourselves in a new light. We’re given the chance to truly reflect God back, and in the process, He reveals things to us, things we need to work on.

When we get close enough, He’ll show us areas that need attention: our heart’s posture, patterns of sin, or parts of our character that may need refining. This closeness is a blessing because it means we’re allowing God to work on us, to mold us to look more and more like Him in character. And just like looking in the mirror shows both the good and the imperfections, spending time with God does the same—it gently nudges us to become better.

Reflecting God’s Image: Becoming More Like Him

As we draw near, we should start to mirror qualities of God’s character. Imagine your reflection showing qualities like kindness, love, mercy, and generosity. These aren’t just “niceties” they’re traits we should work on to reflect God.

Kindness: Are you patient and gentle with others, even when they don’t “deserve” it?
Scripture reference: Proverbs 11:17 – “Those who are kind benefit themselves, but the cruel bring ruin on themselves.”

Love: Is your love selfless and sacrificial, seeking the good of others?
Scripture reference: 1 Corinthians 13:4-5 – “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.”

Merciful: Do you forgive and show grace, even when you’ve been wronged?

Scripture reference: Matthew 5:7 – “Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy.”

Generosity: Are you willing to give freely, of your time, talent and treasure?
Scripture reference: 2 Corinthians 9:7 – “Each of you should give what you have decided in your heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.”

As we look into our “mirror,” let’s reflect on these traits and ask ourselves, Are we kind? Are we loving? Are we merciful? Are we generous?

So today, take a step closer to that mirror, both literally and spiritually. Draw near to God, let Him show you what needs work, and let your reflection—your actions, your character—start to look a little more like His.

I am not a fan of long waits and stuff—long lines, long meetings, long books, long hikes… Get the idea? 

I’m going to share a secret with y’all – don’t judge me. 😬😬😬 I listen to my audiobooks on a speed of 1.5 – 2. I also sometimes read the last chapter before finishing the entire book if it is too long before. I prefer a good summary, blog and or cliff notes you know. 😂

So if you can imagine, you probably won’t see me asking God to help me be patient although it’s one of the fruit of the spirit you know. 

Since we mentioned patience, let’s recap all the fruit. 

But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things! Galatians 5:22-23

Notice the scripture says fruit and not fruits. 😆

For me this means the 9 fruit are like a fruit basket altogether – I need to have all of them inside of me, not just the ones that are convenient. 🙃 🎵 You can’t have one without the other! 🎵

Looking at these have you thought of which fruit you need to work on? 

“But if we look forward to something we don’t yet have, we must wait patiently and confidently.)” ‭‭Romans‬ ‭8‬:‭25‬ ‭NLT‬‬

I’ve always been a lover of a good story. Give me all the details, or at least enough to follow along! When a friend starts telling a juicy story, I can’t help but lean in, physically and mentally, hanging on to every word.

Lately, I’ve realized that same posture—leaning in—is exactly what I need to do to hear God clearly and focus on what truly matters in my life. This season is full of distractions. They’re not all bad things, but if they’re pulling me away from what I’m meant to focus on, they become distractions—whether it’s social media, TV, or an overly packed schedule.

With fall here and Q4 upon us (can you believe it?), the question is: Are you ready? Have you thought about where you’re leaning in this season?

Remember, where you place your attention affects what you retain. So be intentional—lean into what’s right for you during this season.

Last Blog: The Repetition of Love: What Does It Take to Love Like Jesus?

To check out more of my blogs and or content check out my Linktree!

Did you miss a blog post? Don’t worry, subscribe to my newsletter! ❤️

In the Bible, there’s a powerful moment when Jesus asks Simon Peter the same question three times:

“Do you love me?” (John 21:15-17 NLT).At first glance, it seems like a simple exchange. Yet, when we look closer, the repetition of this question holds deeper meaning.

Here’s the passage:

“After breakfast Jesus asked Simon Peter, “Simon son of John, do you love me more than these?” 

“Yes, Lord,” Peter replied, “you know I love you.” “Then feed my lambs,” 

Jesus told him. Jesus repeated the question: “Simon son of John, do you love me?” “Yes, Lord,” Peter said, “you know I love you.” 

“Then take care of my sheep,” Jesus said. 

A third time he asked him, “Simon son of John, do you love me?” Peter was hurt that Jesus asked the question a third time. 

He said, “Lord, you know everything. You know that I love you.” Jesus said, “Then feed my sheep.” John‬ ‭21‬:‭15‬-‭17‬ ‭NLT‬‬

The question that rises here is: Why did Jesus repeat this question three times? Was it for Peter’s sake, to reinforce his commitment, or for us, the readers, to truly grasp the weight of love?

The Power of Repetition

Repetition has a way of breaking through our surface-level understanding and helping us dive deeper into the heart of a message. We may have all heard the scripture: “Love your neighbor as you love yourself.” But how often do we pause and really think about what it takes to live this out daily?

Jesus wasn’t just asking Peter if he loved Him in a general sense. He was calling Peter to live out that love in action—feeding His lambs and caring for His sheep. It was a command to love through service, to demonstrate love by caring for others.

Loving People Like Jesus

When I read this scripture last week, I found myself reflecting on my own character. I’ve always known that love is important, but how can I love people better? In a world where unkindness and division can sometimes feel overwhelming, what does it mean to love others the way Jesus loved?

Just as Jesus repeated His question to Peter, we’ve heard the message of love again and again, whether it’s through biblical teachings or the echoes of love in our own lives. But hearing is one thing—living it is another.

To truly love others, I believe it begins with seeing them. So many people feel unseen and unheard. A quote I love says:
“Being unheard is not the absence of a voice, but the absence of someone willing to listen.”

Love in Action

We live in a fast-paced world, where the habit of listening and engaging deeply with others can easily get lost. But maybe love is simpler than we think. To love people like Jesus, perhaps it starts with a willingness to pause, to see someone, to truly listen.

That’s my challenge for myself—and for you—this week. Let’s commit to seeing someone, listening to them, and showing them they matter. In doing so, we can reflect a deeper, more genuine love.

Challenge: Who can you listen to and care for this week?

Last Blog: Did Someone Say Challenge

To check out more of my blogs and or content check out my Linktree!

Did you miss a blog post? Don’t worry, subscribe to my newsletter! ❤️