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You know how when you step closer to the mirror, your reflection becomes so much clearer? Suddenly, every detail is up close and personal, things you may not have even noticed from a distance are now front and center. This simple act of drawing closer to our reflection holds a powerful message about our relationship with God.

Imagine that mirror reflection as a symbol of how we should be with God. He’s created us in His image, right? So, when we “move closer to the mirror”—when we draw closer to God—we start to see ourselves in a new light. We’re given the chance to truly reflect God back, and in the process, He reveals things to us, things we need to work on.

When we get close enough, He’ll show us areas that need attention: our heart’s posture, patterns of sin, or parts of our character that may need refining. This closeness is a blessing because it means we’re allowing God to work on us, to mold us to look more and more like Him in character. And just like looking in the mirror shows both the good and the imperfections, spending time with God does the same—it gently nudges us to become better.

Reflecting God’s Image: Becoming More Like Him

As we draw near, we should start to mirror qualities of God’s character. Imagine your reflection showing qualities like kindness, love, mercy, and generosity. These aren’t just “niceties” they’re traits we should work on to reflect God.

Kindness: Are you patient and gentle with others, even when they don’t “deserve” it?
Scripture reference: Proverbs 11:17 – “Those who are kind benefit themselves, but the cruel bring ruin on themselves.”

Love: Is your love selfless and sacrificial, seeking the good of others?
Scripture reference: 1 Corinthians 13:4-5 – “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.”

Merciful: Do you forgive and show grace, even when you’ve been wronged?

Scripture reference: Matthew 5:7 – “Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy.”

Generosity: Are you willing to give freely, of your time, talent and treasure?
Scripture reference: 2 Corinthians 9:7 – “Each of you should give what you have decided in your heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.”

As we look into our “mirror,” let’s reflect on these traits and ask ourselves, Are we kind? Are we loving? Are we merciful? Are we generous?

So today, take a step closer to that mirror, both literally and spiritually. Draw near to God, let Him show you what needs work, and let your reflection—your actions, your character—start to look a little more like His.

I am not a fan of long waits and stuff—long lines, long meetings, long books, long hikes… Get the idea? 

I’m going to share a secret with y’all – don’t judge me. 😬😬😬 I listen to my audiobooks on a speed of 1.5 – 2. I also sometimes read the last chapter before finishing the entire book if it is too long before. I prefer a good summary, blog and or cliff notes you know. 😂

So if you can imagine, you probably won’t see me asking God to help me be patient although it’s one of the fruit of the spirit you know. 

Since we mentioned patience, let’s recap all the fruit. 

But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things! Galatians 5:22-23

Notice the scripture says fruit and not fruits. 😆

For me this means the 9 fruit are like a fruit basket altogether – I need to have all of them inside of me, not just the ones that are convenient. 🙃 🎵 You can’t have one without the other! 🎵

Looking at these have you thought of which fruit you need to work on? 

“But if we look forward to something we don’t yet have, we must wait patiently and confidently.)” ‭‭Romans‬ ‭8‬:‭25‬ ‭NLT‬‬

I’ve always been a lover of a good story. Give me all the details, or at least enough to follow along! When a friend starts telling a juicy story, I can’t help but lean in, physically and mentally, hanging on to every word.

Lately, I’ve realized that same posture—leaning in—is exactly what I need to do to hear God clearly and focus on what truly matters in my life. This season is full of distractions. They’re not all bad things, but if they’re pulling me away from what I’m meant to focus on, they become distractions—whether it’s social media, TV, or an overly packed schedule.

With fall here and Q4 upon us (can you believe it?), the question is: Are you ready? Have you thought about where you’re leaning in this season?

Remember, where you place your attention affects what you retain. So be intentional—lean into what’s right for you during this season.

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In the Bible, there’s a powerful moment when Jesus asks Simon Peter the same question three times:

“Do you love me?” (John 21:15-17 NLT).At first glance, it seems like a simple exchange. Yet, when we look closer, the repetition of this question holds deeper meaning.

Here’s the passage:

“After breakfast Jesus asked Simon Peter, “Simon son of John, do you love me more than these?” 

“Yes, Lord,” Peter replied, “you know I love you.” “Then feed my lambs,” 

Jesus told him. Jesus repeated the question: “Simon son of John, do you love me?” “Yes, Lord,” Peter said, “you know I love you.” 

“Then take care of my sheep,” Jesus said. 

A third time he asked him, “Simon son of John, do you love me?” Peter was hurt that Jesus asked the question a third time. 

He said, “Lord, you know everything. You know that I love you.” Jesus said, “Then feed my sheep.” John‬ ‭21‬:‭15‬-‭17‬ ‭NLT‬‬

The question that rises here is: Why did Jesus repeat this question three times? Was it for Peter’s sake, to reinforce his commitment, or for us, the readers, to truly grasp the weight of love?

The Power of Repetition

Repetition has a way of breaking through our surface-level understanding and helping us dive deeper into the heart of a message. We may have all heard the scripture: “Love your neighbor as you love yourself.” But how often do we pause and really think about what it takes to live this out daily?

Jesus wasn’t just asking Peter if he loved Him in a general sense. He was calling Peter to live out that love in action—feeding His lambs and caring for His sheep. It was a command to love through service, to demonstrate love by caring for others.

Loving People Like Jesus

When I read this scripture last week, I found myself reflecting on my own character. I’ve always known that love is important, but how can I love people better? In a world where unkindness and division can sometimes feel overwhelming, what does it mean to love others the way Jesus loved?

Just as Jesus repeated His question to Peter, we’ve heard the message of love again and again, whether it’s through biblical teachings or the echoes of love in our own lives. But hearing is one thing—living it is another.

To truly love others, I believe it begins with seeing them. So many people feel unseen and unheard. A quote I love says:
“Being unheard is not the absence of a voice, but the absence of someone willing to listen.”

Love in Action

We live in a fast-paced world, where the habit of listening and engaging deeply with others can easily get lost. But maybe love is simpler than we think. To love people like Jesus, perhaps it starts with a willingness to pause, to see someone, to truly listen.

That’s my challenge for myself—and for you—this week. Let’s commit to seeing someone, listening to them, and showing them they matter. In doing so, we can reflect a deeper, more genuine love.

Challenge: Who can you listen to and care for this week?

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This weekend, I tuned into the 818 Conference and walked away with so many valuable insights on finance, credit, budgeting, and more! While watching, it hit me that there are definitely areas in my life where I could improve how I manage my resources. And let’s be real – September I was outside, so it’s time to get things back on track.

Whenever I feel the need to refocus, I like to kick things off with a challenge. Who else loves a good challenge? I sure do! Challenges have a way of pushing you to new heights and helping you prioritize the promises you’ve made to yourself. And remember, when we honor our commitments to ourselves, it strengthens our ability to show up truthfully for others.

As we step into fall and approach the final quarter of 2024, let’s finish strong by focusing on our health, wealth, and personal growth (reading)!

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When I read the Bible, I focus on two things:

1. God’s character revealed in scripture.

2. The qualities I share with God.

Right now, I’m participating in a challenge where I read one chapter of Proverbs each day, and you’re welcome to join me! While reading Proverbs 6, I noticed a list of six things God hates and one thing He detests. As I reflected on it, I realized I dislike all of them as well. Since I’m God’s daughter, made in His image (Genesis 1:26), I’m always striving to align my values with His. My desire is to reflect Jesus in my life.

Here’s the list from Proverbs 6:17-19 (NLT):

1. Haughty eyes (pride).

2. A lying tongue.

3. Hands that shed innocent blood.

4. A heart that devises wicked plans.

5. Feet that race to do wrong.

6. A false witness who breathes out lies.

7. A person who sows discord in a family.

The first six are things God hates, while He specifically detests the seventh.

How do you feel about this list? Do you find yourself disliking these things too?